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Al Bellenchia's avatar

“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” - Eleanor Roosevelt

Get up, stand up!

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Mary Vetter's avatar

Dressing to go anywhere was part of the social contract in the 50s and 60s. I am white, I grew up in Queens and I remember that you didn’t go to any social engagement without looking your best.

As a child, this made me feel really special. Getting dressed for the movies was like getting to be a little adult. Your article reminds me that this experience was marred by people who did everything they could to make people of color feel like they were less than.

I appreciate the poise which that woman and child approached such hatred and wonder if I could’ve been so self-possessed in a similar situation.

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